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What aspects in a astro chart might incline someone to be into bdsm or pain/humiliation? If you don't believe in astrology, plz don't answer.
Thanks! | Since no one is answering this question ...I'll try it..why is everyone so serious or doesn't get the question..lol
bdsm is type of fetish...it causes pain/humiliation..and some do enjoy that..plus it's a type of domination performance done by other people.. so out of the 12 zodiacs..I would say that Pisces likes to get dominated the most.
So the possible aspects maybe concerned with Neptune, Venus, and Mars. Along with the Pisces sign. | Does anyone have info on pleasure versus pain in bdsm? I want to know if there is any web site that give any info on this. I want to know if there is different play for them or if it is all the some. any other info I can get on this area of BDSM. thanks | Hi, There are alot of sites that deal with sexual pain and pleasure, separate from just masochistic porn. I get spanked by my wife to be on a regular basis. It started when I broke up with her awhile back. I was able to go back to her and we had a great second start, but I had felt bad about hurting her. she's 4'11" and I'm 6'1". a bit of size difference, anyway after alot of though I did ask her to spank me. At first it was for fun but when she had me bent over her lap( I lay across her lap on the bed) she really started to whip my behind . She was bringing up some things from the past that I have done and she cracked me for breaking up with her.
when she was done I had been spanked for close to an hour, I was trembling from the whooping she just gave me, shaking she took me into her arms , put my head against her breast and told me that everything was now ok . What I felt after my spanking was shuch a closeness to her that I have never felt with anyone ever. Yes I did feel like a little boy getting what he deserves, but I also felt the warm love of a woman that cares for me.
Maybe its the size difference, but I love submitting to her. I would recommend to anyone that wants to get closer to their mate to consider submitting for a good butt warming, it will make the one whos done bad feel better and also the one who spanks knows that they are helping out their mate. We all need to be corrected, (mostly men) we need a loving wife and sometimes a loving mommy who will help us stay respectful..........
I could go on for days.
Any questions please ask I will do my best...
Spanked weekly... | Pain inflicting BDSM device controlled with a remote? Hi!
I'm trying to find for a device that a person can attach and lock to some part of his body and that inflicts pain when someone else pushes a button on a remote control. The part that inflicts pain should preferrably not be an electric shock device (but if that's all that there is, that's of interest too), but preferrably for example needles, or some kind of whip, or heat, or something else that hurts. It must not be dangerous for the bearer's health, but it should hurt a lot.
Where can such a thing be found? | | Use an iron maiden | Do BDSM video shows real pain? Last night I watched one movie that showed a girl was tortured with electricity, and wires was attached to her labia and heavy electricity was passed through her labia and it was repeated many times
i want to know whether pain and electricity was real or fake and how much volt of current is used in such BDSM torture | | Sometimes they do... but i prefer more simple one like hot wax, and clothes pins.. | Why do some people engage in BDSM? Do they like the pain and discomfort that's involved? I came across this online community who supports BDSM, fireplay, torture, etc......this girl even announced that she self multilated herself!
Is it natural for people to become a part of the BDSM community (for lack of a better word)? Why would anyone want sex to be torturous and painful? | It's about more than "just" pain and torture, as matter of fact, pain and torture don't have to be involved at all.
Some of us enjoy pain while in a sexually aroused state because the endorphins releases actually give a euphoric sensation which enhances orgasm, thereby strengthening the bond between partners. There are many aspects of BDSM, though, and pain need not be one if you don't desire it
Power exchange is a big part of it as well, and probably the most important part. It requires such a deep level of trust to play this way with your partner...I just can't even explain it.
I know that not everyone is into this kind of sexual expression, and if it isn't for you, then by all means, don't do it. But please don't judge those of us that do. | What is the word for someone who is sexually aroused by pain? I am writing a book and it has a fetish theme, how ever I know there is a word for an individual who is turned on by pain in the bedchambers. It is not BDSM, there is another word and I need help finding it, can you help? I believe it starts with a M, but Im not sure. | | There are 2 categories, one likes to inflict pain (sadist) and another likes to receive pain (masochist). | Is it not dangerous to participate in BDSM sessions with dominant mistress ? Recently i have seen some BDSM sessions where the dominant mistress is torturing her slave like hell. Don't he (slave) feel the pain ?? or she (mistress) takes care of every thing, i mean safety measures with out doing any physichal harm to her slave.? anybodywho participated in such sessions can clarify my doubt? | Spooky passed this question on to me. There may be words in this answer you don't recognize. My submissive is transgendered, neither male nor female. I use gender neutral pronouns. Zie is equivilant to he or she in usage. Hir is equivilent to his or her in usage. don't let these words detract from the information that I'll be presenting.
I'm the Dominant zie mentioned in hir answer.
I'm not sure I know what you mean by "seen some BDSM sessions". Were you at a club or convention with exhibitions? Did you watch videos (porn or otherwise)? Did a pair of your friends allow you to watch? Each of these may show you a different side of the BDSM lifestyle.
The thing to remember is that it's a trust situation more than it is a sexual situation. If one of the partners doesn't trust the other, then the scene shouldn't happen.
There are responsibilities on both sides. My responsibility as the Dominant is to ensure the safety of my submissive no matter what. This means that I need to know hir limits. I need to know how much pain zie can handle. I need to know the warning signs that tell me when zie is reaching the limit of what zie is capable of handling.
If, for example, I'm going to beat hir. I need to know how hir body reacts to the lash, or the belt or the flogger, or the paddle that I'll be using. If I use my bare hand, I need to know when to pull back rather than truly hurt hir.
If I'm going to humiliate hir, then I need to know what zie can handle psychologically. I know that Spooky has some confidence issues, so I need to keep that in mind when I say or do things.
I also need to be able to care for hir after the scene is completed. This could be as simple as holding hir and letting hir know that I love hir, and it could be as complicated as administering first aid if we are exceptionally rough. I also need to be willing to call an ambulance if (god forbid) an accident occurs. This is where the trust comes in on hir part.
Another thing to remember is that no matter what it looks like, the submissive is always in charge. Whether it be by using safe words, or having the ability to put me in prison, Spooky is the one that's truly in charge. That's where the trust comes in on my part. I trust that Spooky isn't going to call the authorities when I use a paddle or flogger on hir because this is something we've agreed is appropriate for our relationship.
I trust that if I misjudge hir limits, that zie will use a safeword and let me know that zie has reached hir limit. Zie trusts that I'll stop when that safe word is used.
Physical harm is relative in a BDSM situation. Spooky regularly sports bruises from our encounters. These aren't the bruises of abuse, they are badges of honor. They are signs of love, even if the rest of the world doesn't understand our love or the way that we express it.
If need be, I'm willing to answer more of your questions from the perspective of the Dominate, and Spooky is welcome to answer your questions from the perspective of the submissive.
I hope that our answers have helped you. |
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